Monday, August 15, 2011

They do exist...


Few people can claim they have known their best friend for as long as I have known mine.  In fact, I can't even tell you how we met or what we first thought of one another.  Growing up with two brothers, she is the closest relation I will ever have to a sister.  We have known each other literally since we were in diapers and there are few, if any, recollections that I have that she has not been a part of.  Many adventures and bouts of mischief, none instigated by me of course, were shared by the two of us with countless stories to fill a lifetime of memories.  There is one memory however, that stands out far above any others...

I full heartedly believe in angels.  This can be declared without a trace of doubt for I have seen one before… well I should say we have seen one before.

Like so many of my older post I will take you back again to my childhood home where this incident took place many years ago.  This home sits upon about 60 acres of mostly farmland but towards the back of the property, our gravel lane extends to a large woods with an enormous hill leading down to a deserted gravel pit.  It should be noted that during this time my parents had oil wells set up around the property and the company that managed them kept a very small office not far from the bottom of this hill.  Now like most children of 7 we constantly tested our limits.  And what better way to do so then by ridding our bikes to areas that we were strictly told not to go?  This is how this story begins.

We rode towards the woods, down that long gravel lane, and came to the top of this very steep and large hill.  We waited, each silently pondering which one had the nerve to go first.   I was the brave one and decided to ride as fast as I could.  After making it down safely my friend followed only to have a terrible accident at the bottom.  Blood was gushing from her head and I was in a state of panic.  With my friend screaming in pain and myself in a total state of confusion as to what to do, I left my friend and rushed to this office only to find it locked with nobody around.  My screams and beatings on the door were in vain… what was I going to do? 

Tears running down my face I turned to go back to aid my friend only to discover a man by her side with a towel held up to her bleeding head.  He didn’t say a word, walked her over to the entrance of the office where I was standing and next thing I knew the door was unlocked and I was on the phone calling my mother to come and get us.  With my friend at my side, still holding that red towel to her forehead, we walked back outside only for this man to be gone, completely vanished.  We were the only ones in that deserted place.   

My mother arrived on the scene and all was put back to right once we were home.  It wasn’t until later in the day that we both realized what had taken place.  A locked door, a red towel, and a disappearing man…

To this day we both can account for what we saw.  

They do exist. 

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Power of the dog...


How many of us would concede to the most heartfelt relationship with someone who would love you like nobody had ever loved you before?  Someone who accepts you for every flaw and who will always be the first to say they were sorry?  The most ideal relationship you could ever possibly imagine?  Complete and unconditional love!

But what if this relationship came at an inevitable cost to you?  You would lose this someone many years before you were ever ready to let them go.   Most, I imagine, would never agree to giving their heart over to a relationship that you knew was ultimately doomed to sheer heartache.  So why do so many of us do this?   

A few weeks ago my friend sent me a message asking if I had ever read “The Power of the Dog” by Rudyard Kipling?  Being a fan of Kipling, I was surprised to realize I had not.  This poem is not for the faint of heart.  Tears were pouring down my face by the time I had reached the end.  How perfectly Rudyard described this relationship.

If you were to ask me to describe my idealistic relationship,  I would simply say... to find someone who loves me like my dog.

The Power of the Dog
by
Rudyard Kipling

There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
And when we are certain of sorrow in store,
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and sisters, I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.

Buy a pup and your money will buy
Love unflinching that cannot lie--
Perfect passion and worship fed
By a kick in the ribs or a pat on the head.
Nevertheless it is hardly fair
To risk your heart to a dog to tear.

When the fourteen years which Nature permits
Are closing in asthma, or tumour, or fits,
And the vet's unspoken prescription runs
To lethal chambers or loaded guns,
Then you will find--it's your own affair--
But ... you've given your heart to a dog to tear.

When the body that lived at your single will,
With its whimper of welcome, is stilled (how still!)
When the spirit that answered your every mood
Is gone--wherever it goes--for good,
You will discover how much you care,
And will give your heart to a dog to tear.

We've sorrow enough in the natural way,
When it comes to burying Christian clay.
Our loves are not given, but only lent,
At compound interest of cent per cent.
Though it is not always the case, I believe,
That the longer we've kept 'em, the more do we grieve:
For, when debts are payable, right or wrong,
A short-term loan is as bad as a long--
So why in--Heaven (before we are there)
Should we give our hearts to a dog to tear?